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UT Catholic organization launches gay prayer group

Support group to examine relationship between Catholicism, sexual orientation

By Ednna Solis

Daily Texan Staff

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Published: Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Updated: Tuesday, February 10, 2009

The principle behind UT’s University Catholic Center’s founding of a gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender support group is that in God’s eyes, we are all the same.

Group meetings will begin this week, where members will come together for discussion, prayer and fellowship.

“We want to provide a safe place for young people to talk about this issue — how does it fit in with the Catholic Church teachings?” said the Rev. Ed Koharchik, associate director at the center. “Whether one is gay or straight, it’s morally neutral.”

In recent weeks, the center has promoted the support group, whose purpose is to shed light on the “misconstrued teachings of the church” with respect to non-heterosexual lifestyles, Koharchik said.

“It’s about this group of people and how to stay within the teachings of the church and yet still identify as being of that orientation,” said Michael Jungwirth, a Middle Eastern studies graduate student.  “It sounds reasonable.”

Koharchik said he hopes to deter Catholics from breaking off their relationship with God due to their sexual orientation. He said he wants community members to know that sexuality is not tied to an individual’s personhood and that linking the two together could “cut off awareness to goodness.”

Koharchik and UT alumna Chelsea Griffo enlisted the support of Bishop Gregory Aymond from the Diocese of Austin to implement the program.

Koharchik and Griffo said they believe that Aymond’s approval of the group will appease possible protesters who deem the forming of the group a sanction of same-sex relationships.

“There is a lot of hatred out there,” Koharchik said. “There’s a lot of anger.”

History and finance senior Jennifer Marquess said she first heard about the group three weeks ago after a Mass.

“I think it is awesome that they were able to get the support of the bishop for the group,” Marquess said.

Student members of the center expressed their accord with the group.

“I think they brought it up last semester,” said Eugene Martir, a biology and linguistics junior. “They had thrown out the ideas, and it seemed like a really good idea at the time.”

When asked about any concerns regarding opposition to the support group, the students shrugged it off.

“People will protest anything,” Martir said.

Koharchik said the center is not attempting to keep the announcement of the group under wraps and that the center is actively seeking to promote the support group.

“Whenever you start a group, it’s going to be slow at first, unless it’s something immensely popular,” Jungwirth said.

Among other pastoral recommendations aimed toward church ministers, the National Conference of Catholic Bishops suggests in its pamphlet, “Always Our Children,” that religious entities “help to establish or promote support groups for parents and family members” of gays and lesbians.

Koharchik’s goal for the support group is to encourage a chaste lifestyle for every person and to encourage members to “live morally good and make proper decisions.

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17 comments

lucille
Sun Sep 20 2009 00:25
Whatever is happening in the church, we know one thing for sure. We still havel God's laws that have been written down from the beginning and given to those in times when people had continually fallen away. A sure way to get back on track is to pray, go to Church, follow these commandments especially the one Jesus gave us. To love God above all things and to love your neighbor as yourself. Do these things, and I will guarantee the truth will come, almost like the water falling continuously from the sky on a rainy day.. We look at things from our perspective and what we feel. A trap has been set for many. The evil one is out to deceive many. Stay close to God, pray, say a rosary. It will decrease vice in your life, and thru Jesus Christ, you will be set free.
Brian
Thu Feb 26 2009 19:29
It is interesting to read some of the comments. I find it difficult to reconcile my sexuality with my faith...and for this reason my faith suffers. Sometimes I ask myself am I putting my sexuality before God...and on the other hand am I ignoring my sexuality before God.

Growing up and realising your gay is often a difficult task. When I look at my life and look and the lives of other gay people it appears to me that we are a lost community which clings to materialism and sex much easier than hetrosexual people...the reason I find...is we lack leadership. Just as in any society..leadership is core. The Catholic Church has a leader who, in his right mind, believes he is doing what is right..I respect him for that alone. The fact that the church teaches that homosexual acts are evil should not get in my way of finding my true self.. I should be my own leader, one who is influenced by all aspects of my life...I find leadership in the people around me, those who struggle for justice and peace..those who fight for what they believe in...the Pope...the mere fact that he believes what he preaches gives me hope to be comfortable in my own skin..gives me hope to be comfortable with my sexuality...with the person of the same sex...who I finally love.

I would love to wake up in the morning and find the gay leaders..the gay community..embracing their faith..embracing the hetrosexual community...and becoming one comnunity..the gay community should take the first step towards reconciliation..dont expect the church to fix everything...YOU do your part to make the world a better place...STOP pointing the finger at the church and the hetrosexual world and saying you hate me and start looking at yourself in and part of that world..STOP putting yourself in a box outside of humanity and become part of humanity. STOP flaunting your sexuality as if your a piece of meat...have standards...show respect..love others...treat others as you would have them treat you. STOP judging the church...it does NOTHING to improve the situation...hate does not creat love...hate of the church only creates more hate...STOP being so angry at yourself and at others...give life a chance...STOP judging others... find love and no hate.

David
Wed Feb 18 2009 16:05
congratulations and it's awesome, God bless them and give everybody stronger faith, trust, and wisdom. :D

YAAAAAYYYY!!!

frank
Wed Feb 18 2009 15:19
The Catholic church's treatment of gay people is indefensibly evil. For centuries catholic countries scapegoated gays and burned them to death. Now the church opposes any and all civil rights for gay people.

If you are born gay and catholic, your church is your mortal enemy

JPoole
Sat Feb 14 2009 22:29
The Catholic church does not have a problem with anyone who is homosexual. If this group is about supporting people who are homosexual and helping them to follow the teachings of the church, which means not engaging in homosexual activities, then it would be a wonderful thing. I understand that asking a homosexual person to not act upon their feelings is not an easy request however as a Catholic, one must accept the teachings of the Church.

To respond to Natalie's question: There isn't really a "ranking" of sins and you are 100% correct that pre-marital sex is a sin as well, and basically for the same reason. Both homosexual sex and sex outside of marriage are against the purpose of sex which is to be a total self giving, unitive, and life giving act. I disagree with the assertion that the sin of pre-marital sex is more easily forgiven, both are forgiven through being sorry for ones actions and asking for forgiveness. Where homosexuality hits a few more road blocks is that it can become a way of life that has no way of being reconciled with Catholic teachings. Pre-marital sex can at least become marital sex which is not just okay but wonderful.

To Jeremy who posted about the sex abuse cases. You are an infant, if you think you are bringing anything to the conversation by talking about those horrible men and painting the whole Catholic Church with that brush, you are a sad, sad person. Also the church has never promoted such actions as you accused. I also think homosexuals would and should be greatly offended by your comment implying the abusive priests were homosexuals. Any adult who preys on pre-pubescent children is not acting on sexual preference and are no more likely to be homosexual than heterosexual.

anonymous
Wed Feb 11 2009 20:26
This group is not only for the GLBT community but also for our supporting allies. I can't speak for all the GLBT Catholics, but by first hand experience I am glad that the church leaders are welcoming us back. After been told so many times that I am going to hell for loving the person I love, I am glad that at least a couple of leaders of the church don't shun me away. Having been raised a Catholic, I have struggled with this for most of my life

Will I really go to hell for being myself?
Is being who I am a greater sin than murder or adultery?
If God created us in his image, am I mistake?
Could God have possibly made a mistake?
I don't think or at least I hope not.

Truthfully I don't know the answer to this questions, and I doubt anyone else can say they do.
As holly as people think the Pope is, he is not God.
The only one who knows is God, and unfortunately for those against me and the GLBT community the Bible is a book written by man not God.

TMH
Wed Feb 11 2009 14:40
Natalie, the promiscuous lifestyle is in question. Sins are just that, acts that moves one away from God. All the Church ask is that one lives a life of virtue and a life in Christ, and that applies to all people, whether your are green, gray, neon pink, or else.

Marc, the Catholic Church compiled the Bible that you hold dear, and it did so through the wisdom of the Sacred Traditions from the authority of the Magisterium of the Church through the Apostolic Succession down the ages. Bible alone does not save. And as much as we are sinners, as Children of God baptized into Mystical Body of Christ we are loved by God to the degree that each of us is capable of receiving Him and His abundant graces. And as Christians, one is to live following the inspirations of the Holy Spirit and strife to be the best that one can be in virtue of faith, hope, and love.

Jeremy, there are a lot of good/virtuous priests in the Catholic Church. Instead of focusing on the bad examples of priesthood/religious life and then generalizing it to say that the disciplines and practices of the Church promotes the otherwise unnamed "negative" results seems unjustified. Priests in the Catholic Church give their life for the Church much the same way a husband give his life to his wife and chastity and fidelity are the way to go in both instances. Road to heaven is narrow, but known, though many may fail, hope is not lost, preseverance and endurance will win the crown in the end.

As far as the new student group, as with any Christian student group, should proceed with much discernment and prayer. And openness to the guidance of the Holy Spirit is a must. And at the end of the day, all that one could say is "Totus Tuus."

TMH

Natalie
Wed Feb 11 2009 02:55
I like the principle behind this group: "In God's eyes, we're all the same."

In response to a comment below about homosexuality being a sin... How and why does this particular "sin" rank higher than others such as pre-marital sex (something in which a high majority of people our age engage)? It seems the Church forgives these people much more easily. I just don't understand the double standard. I'm not Catholic, and I'm asking an honest question-- not trying to start any argument!

Anonymous
Tue Feb 10 2009 23:41
Before you make any judgments or preconceived notions of what this group will or will not teach regarding living a homosexual lifestyle as a Catholic, check it out. The organization is run by Fr. Ed as well as students of different backgrounds and experience and welcomes anyone interested in having a healthy dialogue about being gay (or otherwise) and Christian.
KJ
Tue Feb 10 2009 20:20
Heh. The nicest thing the parish could do would be to not be welcoming to these poor kids, who are going to end up believing that somehow being gay and catholic can somehow be compatible. The Vatican has made it clear that a homosexual life is not compatible with a catholic lifestyle. If the Pope and various Vatican officials and Bishops were using the same kind of rhetoric against black people, these kids wouldn't be sitting in those pews.
Joey Castillo
Tue Feb 10 2009 16:24
This article reads like a press release. There is not one quote from existing gay and lesbian support groups on campus, and concerns of opposition — which are legitimate, considering that the group explicitly aims to suppress the sexuality of gay and lesbian students — are "shrugged off."

It's not that difficult to pick up the telephone and call some of the highly visible groups in Austin that are actually trying to help out youth — or to walk the hundred yards from your offices to the Gender and Sexuality Center, where I am sure you would have heard meaningful and well-reasoned opposition to the idea that gays and lesbians must live a chaste lifestyle. Instead, you quote more members of the University Catholic Center, who unsurprisingly "expressed their accord."

Diversity of sources is the foundation of good journalism. There is no excuse for the shoddy reporting displayed in this article, and frankly, I expected more from The Daily Texan.

Whitf
Tue Feb 10 2009 14:36
These kids need to learn that the church is most charitable to homosexuals who live up to their expectations - the diseased, the drug-addicted, the lonely, the powerless, the ashamed. Those who are successful, accomplished, optimistic, happy, and healthy are an affront to the negative preconceptions that people have so much invested in. These students will be shunned so fast their heads will spin.
Molly
Tue Feb 10 2009 14:29
The Church thinks it can include chaste homosexual and bisexuals, yet seeks to repress an essential part of their being: their sexuality. This group is a step in the right direction, but this is a long road.
Jerely
Tue Feb 10 2009 13:30
Perhaps that is the problem. There is nothing "positive" about this lifestyle choice.
Marc
Tue Feb 10 2009 10:54
While I don't have a problem with the church having a support group for homosexuals, it still needs to be made clear that the Bible, not the church or the specific religion, but the Bible itself says that homosexuality is wrong and a sin in God's eyes. Saying that we are all the same in God's eyes is correct...he sees all of us as sinners.
Your name
Tue Feb 10 2009 10:52
Jeremy - doesn't this article say that the Catholic Church isn't promoting the negativity toward gay and lesbian individuals that many people think the church promotes?
Jeremy
Tue Feb 10 2009 10:01
The Catholic church has had many closet homosexuals as priests and many have abused young children. The Catholic church should take a better look at the type of practices that they promote in this regard.






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